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What would you teach?

5/1/2017

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The other day I played checkers with my 7 year old nephew. I kept asking myself whether I should play to let him win and what would I teach him if I did that or played my (very rusty) best.

It was very obvious he was strategizing, looking a move or two ahead (I was impressed!). I knew he wanted to win (of course!). I acknowledged him for how well he was playing - how he was planning what moves to make and that I enjoyed how he was making me really think. When I had more kings then he did he took one of the crowns off my king and hid it. I mentioned the change I saw and he looked around for the checker when I saw it in his hand. He knew I saw it.

“What would I teach him?” popped up.

Again I told him how well he was playing figuring out his next move. I let him know he was challenging me to be a good player. Then I said I didn’t like that he wasn’t honest about what he did to my king to which he replied, “You don’t like that I cheated.” I said in a neutral voice, “I know you want to win, I just don’t like you weren’t honest with me.” To me there is a difference, a difference I didn’t go into with him as it wasn’t the time or place.

We continued to play and when I had more kings than him he suddenly ended the game. In my past I would have been told I was a sore loser and felt shamed. I didn’t want nor need to do that to him. I understood he was frustrated, he played his best, that he wanted to win, and he was 7 years old.

“What would I teach him?”

I thanked him once again for a good game. I told him he was really good at strategizing (saying this differently a few times) and how much he made me think, challenged me to do my best, and that I enjoyed playing with him.

What would he have learned if I let him win and not challenge him to be his best? What would he have learned if I shamed him?

Each of us, whether speaking with another person or to ourselves, is teaching.

What would you teach?

Beth

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    Beth is a Board Certified Hypnotist, certified in 5-PATH® Hypnosis and a certified 7th Path Self-Hypnosis® instructor.

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